人生智慧文库（中英文对照）
挚友真情------献给永恒友谊的金玉之言
女子细语------女性独立处身箴言
潇洒人生------1001种生活乐趣的窍门
挚友真情
Friends in Deed
人生最大的一件幸事就是拥有真正的亲密无间，地久天长的友谊。满怀深情的朋友可以使那些艰难的岁月变得不再苦不堪言，使那些幸福的时光叫人难以忘怀。像人生所遇的一切事件一样，真正的友谊需要人们的耕耘和相互理解，而有时也会出现本不该发生的较复杂和紧张的现象。
One of life's greatest blessings is a truly close,lasting friendship.A cherished friend can make those hard times better an those happy times even more memorable.As with every th蹒跚的反义词
ing in life,true friendships take work and understanding,and sometimes get more complicated an strained when the don’t need to.
挚友真情是无价之宝，它汇集了对如何成为挚友、怎样对待伟大的友谊、对友谊应抱何种期望等各方面的精辟答案、可信论证、激励鼓舞、实际忠告，使友谊不再神秘莫测。它无疑可帮助我们探讨怎样得到周围人们的更多拥戴和喜爱的艺术，同时说明了作为朋友怎样才能为人所珍重。友谊来去匆匆，挚友与世长存。
Friends in Deed is a price-less collection of answers, con-firmations,inspiration,shattered myths and practical advice on being a good friend and knowing how to handle and what to expect from a great friendship.It is sure to provide insights in the art of being more popular with those around you while explaining how to be more treasured as a friend. Friendships come and go but friends in deed remain forever.
1．  友对于我们珍如礼物。
Friends are a gift to ourselves.
2．  朋友共享淳朴坦诚相待的乐趣。
Enjoy the simple things together.
3．嫉妒岂能是朋友之间持有的态度。
Jealousy is not a friendly trait.
4．  朋友的成就才华而感到高兴。
Cheer on your friends’ accomplishments.
5．  宽容谅解，不念旧恶。
心中有梦Forgive.
6．  共同欢笑。
Laugh together.
7．  伸手相助。
Lend a helping hand.
8．  结识朋友的锦囊妙计是自己先做他人之友。
The best way to habe a friend is to be one.
9．  与朋友决不要斤斤计较自己付出多少，得到多少。
Never measure how much you give or get.
10．  自愿为朋友照看孩子。
Offer baby-sit.
11．  学会聆听。
Learn to listen.
12．  渴望友谊，我们每天都怀有这样的心愿。
Each day we all face similar difficulties with hearts that need friendship.
13．  无论在顺利之日，还是在艰难之时，朋友与你同在。
Friends are there for the good times and the bad.
14．  对朋友的秘密要守口如瓶。
Keep your friends’ secrets.
15．  能够友好待己，才会友好待人。
Be friendly to yourself, then you can be friendly to others.
16．  不论何时遇有机会，都要慷慨大度地给予别人衷心的赞扬和鼓励。
Whenever confronted with the opportunity, be generous with heart-felt praise and encouragement.
那些年一起追过的女孩17．  用温情脉脉的话语向自己最亲爱的人表述情感为什么要感到难于启齿呢？讲出来吧！讲出来！讲出来！
Why is it sometimes difficult to utter kind words to those we love the most? Say them, say them, say them.
18．“一次中肯适当的赞扬，会使我能有两个月以此为生。”——马克吐温。
  “I can live for two months on one good compliment.”
19．  友谊承认我们是分离的个体，她珍视这点，但同时又在力求缩短我们的距离。
Friendship is acknowledging that we are separate people, and celebrating it, while striving to close the distance.
20．  友谊有其神秘之处——通过探索，你会发现自我。
There is mystery to friendship----and after exploration you may find yourself.
川牛膝和怀牛膝的区别21．  友谊是行动，决不仅仅是言辞。
Friendship is not just words, it is deeds.
22．  朋友知道何时应让你一个人独处。
  Friends know when to let you be alone.
23．  除“期望”友谊之外，朋友别无他求。
Friends “expect” nothing but friendship.
24．  同心探索，共担风险。
Be willing to try new adventures together.
25．  分享你的梦想，吐露你的心愿。
Share your dreams and confide your wishes.
26．  友谊使戒备防范成为多余。
Friendship makes defenses unnecessary.
27．  朋友对互相间的优缺点了如指掌。
智慧人生Friends know well each other’s strength and weaknesses.
暗箭明28．  友谊是不受时间和空间的阻隔的。
Friendships find distance and time no real obstacles.
29．  经历生离死别的考验，才算历尽了友谊的沧桑。
Separation and even death must be accepted to feel the full richness of a friendship.
30．  朋友并不一定总是形影不离。
Friends aren’t always together.
31．  朋友并不一定总对事情能够有入木三分的感受。
Friends don’t always feel deeply about things.
32．  朋友的确会有使你失望的时候。
Friends do let you down.
33．  但这并不意味着他们对你的爱有丝毫减弱。
But that doesn’t mean they love you any less.
34．  友谊在很大程度上体现家庭的作用。有时，朋友们要互相支撑，面对现实中的不公平，共度艰难的时光。
The main work of friendship consists of homely tasks---such as bracing each other up to face the unfairness of existence and getting through the tough times.
35．“有钱出钱，有力出力。对有些人来讲，这比你只是敢于想象要强。”——亨利
  “Give what you have. To some it may be better than you dare to think.”---Henry
36．  为别人的知己，你并不一定非要出类拔萃不可。
You do not have to be a special person to be a good friend.
37．  要知道，你和其他所有的人一样都是独一无二、讨人喜欢的人。
Realize that you, and all others, are unique and lovable.
38．  任何人都能成为百里挑一的朋友！
Anyone can be a one-in-a-million friend!
39．  最美好的友谊存在于那些难免有缺点错误的人们之间。
The best of friendships exist between people with flaws and shortcomings.
40．  自我陶醉在真正的友谊中无处容身。
Narcissism has no place in a true friendship.
41．  美好的友谊中不需要有什么人总是占上风。
The best friendships do not require that angone keep the upper hand.
42．  真正的朋友没必要讲究繁文缛礼。只要相聚在一起，淳朴宁静的乐趣便油然而生。
Real friends don’t have to do much---there should be a simple, quiet joy in just being toghther.
43．“一个好男子的一生中最可贵的部分，是他那些不起眼的、没世无称的、默默无闻的充满仁爱与爱心的行动。”——威廉华兹华斯